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Writer's pictureJennifer Butz

You Only Hurt the One You Love

Updated: Jul 1

Usually, Wondercrone’s thoughts are centered on the lives of older women, but today I want to share my thoughts on something that impacts elders around the world—elder abuse. June 15th is the World Elder Abuse Awareness Day. What a sorry state of affairs when the UN has had to make this a pillar of the Decade of Healthy Aging. And yet, here we are.


Like all forms of domestic violence, elder abuse is often hidden, growing silently in the shadows. Elder abuse can take many forms: physical, emotional, or financial. It’s a gut-wrenching reality that many older adults face such abuse at the hands of those they trust most.


Statistics can feel impersonal, but they tell an important story. According to the World Health Organization, roughly 1 in 6 people aged 60 years and older experienced some form of abuse in the past year. That’s a staggering number of our elders who are abused. These aren’t just numbers—they’re people with rich histories, wisdom, and lives that deserve respect and protection.

So, what can we do? How can we, as individuals and communities, fight elder abuse and ensure that elders live with dignity and respect?


First and foremost, we can raise awareness. Talk about it. Elder abuse thrives in silence and secrecy. By bringing this issue into the light, we can begin to dismantle the stigma and encourage open conversations. Share articles, attend workshops, and engage in community events that focus on elder care and security.


Knowledge is power, so let’s learn about elder abuse and share what we’ve learned with others. Learn about the signs of elder abuse—unexplained bruises, social withdrawal, sudden financial difficulties, increased anxiety, or poor hygiene. Let your friends, family, and community members know what to look for. Once informed, we’re better equipped to intervene.


Third, let’s support caregivers. Caregiving is tough. It’s a job that often comes without breaks, pay, or even appreciation. We can support those who care for elders by offering a helping hand, a listening ear, or even just a bit of respite. When caregivers are supported, they’re less likely to feel overwhelmed and more likely to provide compassionate care.


We can also demand policies and laws needed to protect elders. Advocate for stronger protections, better funding for elder care programs, and harsher penalties for abusers. Write to your local representatives, support organizations working on these issues, and use your voice to push for change.


Finally, we can create communities where elders feel valued and included. This can be as simple as checking in on an older neighbor, volunteering at a senior center, or creating intergenerational programs that foster connections between the young and the old. A strong community is the best defense against elder abuse.


Every small step we take makes a difference. We elders can build our personal power. We also look to those around us to co-create healthy, productive, and kind environments. Come join me at WonderCrone.com

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